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Misty Creek   in reply to SysBot   on

What's on your heart and mind today?

 in response to Debbiescared...   Well know there is comfort that I have lived in the instance of what you are speaking not having cancer, but no income. Although I had to live without income for almost a year. With charities from all who felt my situation, eating where we could, sleeping where we could, all just to be safe. I know what you are saying but, I am still standing here today. I can't say that our lives (my kids and myself), are full of cherries right now, in fact they are far from, but I refuse to let life's hiccups run my life. Never stop fighting, Blessings to your and yours. I pray for you that all will be as you would like it soon.
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Misty Creek   in reply to butterfly22   on

free money to help pay bills

 in response to lonesomeland...   Absolutely no problem, and in truth if a girl is looking at you for your money, than she is not a girl worth your time. There is not one person in this world that has not got a problem of some sort. Some are more severe than others grant you, but every one has problems. I my self have been single for, God I guess going on 12 or so years now. I have had a couple relationships in between that time, but none panned out to be more that something someone else could take. Made me just not trust men much anymore. I have several friends and only a friend that are guys, but nothing consisting of a relationship. I also found that if you don't look your greatest fears in the face, than they will over take you every time. I just don't let anything have that power over me anymore. You can do the same thing. Also one day your daughter is going to come to you, not for what you can give her, but for what she has been missing in her life from you all these years, just let her have her time to be mad or what ever rebels she has. It too will pass. You have given what you needed to show her, it is still important for you to be in her life irregardless. And Good For You on that. With your other children, just keep up your relationship with them as well. But don't sell yourself short, get out there and meet people, you are not dead, and you don't deserve to live like it either. Don't be one of those shy guys either, but also don't come on like a, excuse my french but a Jack Ass. Just be you, and let them see you, and you will find that someone that wants to be that other part of you. Don't speak of your problems, unless asked, and if asked be honest, don't settle for something you know to not be right for you. Whatever you do for gosh sakes, don't grab onto the first one that comes along either, and give yourself no less than 6 months to know this person. If you have and pet P's about them, then that is your heart saying no, this is not the one. If you find one that everything just happens to just seem like it's flowing, you don't have to put a lot of efforts into it. I would say you found a winner, but like I said give yourself time to see that, if it is hear today, it will be there tomorrow too. YOU CAN DO THIS! With your debts do make sure that you call them. I would like to see you at peace. One thing that I used to say to folks, is don't worry about shit, until you have shit to worry about. If someone is showing up at your door, greet them, get a card from them, and tell them your lawyer will be in touch. Say nothing more, offer them no more explanation, bid them a good day, and shut the door. If they call you do the same. Once you get these other guys involved, all this will stop. So you can see you are on the road to recovery, but follow through to, once you start do not stop until you have accomplished your task. Never loose sight of God either. He loves you, don't turn your back on him. He is not on you I promise. He will never give you more than you can handle, but he won't allow you to suffer any more than you allow yourself to suffer. It's like a marriage, both sides have to give an equal share, and everything else will fall into place. Blessings to you.
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Misty Creek   in reply to butterfly22   on

free money to help pay bills

 in response to lonesomeland...   Absolutely no problem, and in truth if a girl is looking at you for your money, than she is not a girl worth your time. There is not one person in this world that has not got a problem of some sort. Some are more severe than others grant you, but every one has problems. I my self have been single for, God I guess going on 12 or so years now. I have had a couple relationships in between that time, but none panned out to be more that something someone else could take. Made me just not trust men much anymore. I have several friends and only a friend that are guys, but nothing consisting of a relationship. I also found that if you don't look your greatest fears in the face, than they will over take you every time. I just don't let anything have that power over me anymore. You can do the same thing. Also one day your daughter is going to come to you, not for what you can give her, but for what she has been missing in her life from you all these years, just let her have her time to be mad or what ever rebels she has. It too will pass. You have given what you needed to show her, it is still important for you to be in her life irregardless. And Good For You on that. With your other children, just keep up your relationship with them as well. But don't sell yourself short, get out there and meet people, you are not dead, and you don't deserve to live like it either. Don't be one of those shy guys either, but also don't come on like a, excuse my french but a Jack Ass. Just be you, and let them see you, and you will find that someone that wants to be that other part of you. Don't speak of your problems, unless asked, and if asked be honest, don't settle for something you know to not be right for you. Whatever you do for gosh sakes, don't grab onto the first one that comes along either, and give yourself no less than 6 months to know this person. If you have and pet P's about them, then that is your heart saying no, this is not the one. If you find one that everything just happens to just seem like it's flowing, you don't have to put a lot of efforts into it. I would say you found a winner, but like I said give yourself time to see that, if it is hear today, it will be there tomorrow too. YOU CAN DO THIS! With your debts do make sure that you call them. I would like to see you at peace. One thing that I used to say to folks, is don't worry about shit, until you have shit to worry about. If someone is showing up at your door, greet them, get a card from them, and tell them your lawyer will be in touch. Say nothing more, offer them no more explanation, bid them a good day, and shut the door. If they call you do the same. Once you get these other guys involved, all this will stop. So you can see you are on the road to recovery, but follow through to, once you start do not stop until you have accomplished your task. Never loose sight of God either. He loves you, don't turn your back on him. He is not on you I promise. He will never give you more than you can handle, but he won't allow you to suffer any more than you allow yourself to suffer. It's like a marriage, both sides have to give an equal share, and everything else will fall into place. Blessings to you.
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Misty Creek   in reply to Mother of 2110   on

NEED: Help for my children of CHRISTMAS

 in response to sono...   There you go, I have no doubts you will have a Very nice Christmas for the little ones, Keep you chin up. :)
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Misty Creek   in reply to SysBot   on

What's on your heart and mind today?

 in response to Debbiescared...   Yes indeed, more sense considerably, I wish you the best with that treatment sounds like you have some positive things ahead of you, and some still being worked on, but my experience with lawyers and courts, they are never going to be in any hurry. Try to look at is as a blessing though, if things hurried along, other things may be missed and you may not otherwise get all your entitled. Many blessings to you.
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Misty Creek   in reply to SysBot   on

What's on your heart and mind today?

 in response to ...   Hello Kristina, we are practically neighbors, I live in Eldon. So let me see if I can get you on the road to some good help. Here are a few, see if anything here will help you out. Blessings

http://www.mexicoledger.com/news/x870213311/Mexico-groups-to-kick-off-holiday-season-with-variety-of-activities
http://www.mexicoledger.com/news/x2072237702/Community-helps-kids-enjoy-holiday
http://www.merchantcircle.com/business/United.Way.of.Mexico.573-581-0404
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Misty Creek   in reply to SysBot   on

What's on your heart and mind today?

 in response to Debbiescared...   Hello I dare say that your blog has me truly and totally confused. I'm not sure what all the Senators secretary or the lawyer not doing anything, or the judge make some decision was entailing here. If I missed a prior blog I do apologize. As far as someone offering you a luxurious place on the beach I am confused about this as well. Did you enter a contest, or did some random person just up and offer you a place. In any case in response to your condition, are you requiring some sort of medical attention for this, or are you in treatments already. I once again do apologize to be so lost here. I do wish the best for you.
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Misty Creek   in reply to SysBot   on

What's on your heart and mind today?

 in response to TVC15...   And no regrets there should ever be. Why would it be a bad thing to spend money you earned on something you desire. There isn't, so in response to your blog, CONGRATULATIONS, I am happy to see that something that was so pleasing to you was also well worth the risk to you. Kudos. :)
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Misty Creek   in reply to Mother of 2110   on

NEED: Help for my children of CHRISTMAS

 in response to sono...   I found a few places that you might give a try.

http://www.salvationarmycolumbus.org/christmas/index.html
http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/1053079/christmas_charity_donations_in_columbus.html?cat=48
http://columbusbenefitsinfo.com/Foodpantries.aspx
http://www.firstcallforhelp211.org/HTML/fcfh0064aa.html
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Misty Creek   in reply to Mother of 2110   on

NEED: Help for my children of CHRISTMAS

 in response to twinsisterok...   I would advise you to give the Salvation Army in your local area a try, but too let me know where you are at, city and state, I will see what I can find for more possibilities for you to try
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Misty Creek   in reply to Starshine   on

Christmas gifts for single mother families Angel Assistance Program

 in response to Praylady...   here are a couple places I invite you to try looking into. All these places state they are extending Christmas help

http://corps.salvationarmyindiana.org/newalbany/
http://www.ymcaharrison.org/Hours/Hours_Map.html
http://www.dealerrater.com/dealer/John-Jones-GM-City-Corydon-review-36881/
http://www.thisisindiana.org/content.asp?q_areaprimaryid=3&q_areasecondaryid=44&q_areatertiaryid=22&q_locationid=152
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Misty Creek   in reply to silvercoin12   on

Food and Christmas help needed

Contact your local food pantry or Salvation Army, they should be able to help you with food, as far a Christmas, they might help you there too. If not try contacting your local police or fire departments to see if they can tell you where to get on a adopt your family for Christmas list.
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Misty Creek   in reply to SysBot   on

What's on your heart and mind today?

 in response to goingcrazy69...   I did just send the one message just to make sure that you were getting messages, Can you please tell me where you are, and I will try to find programs for you to inquire about.
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Misty Creek   in reply to 1stymemommie   on

I can't even buy my son shoes

Get in touch with the Salvation Army in your local area, I am pretty sure your son will have a new pair of shoes after you talk with them.
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Misty Creek   in reply to SysBot   on

What's on your heart and mind today?

 in response to patt...   Is that the one you thought was a good one? Or are you still hopeful on one.??
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Misty Creek   in reply to Lcollver   on

DO YOU NEED A FREE CAR? This is no joke,it's very real..

 in response to arlor...   I found a couple more for you to look into as well hopefully something here will work for you too. Good luck

http://www.kars4kids.org/car-donation-florida.htm
http://www.donationline.com/florida.htm
http://www.cars4causes.net/donate-car-florida
http://www.donateforcharity.com/florida.html
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Misty Creek   in reply to Lcollver   on

DO YOU NEED A FREE CAR? This is no joke,it's very real..

 in response to arlor...   well on most websites there also a contact us forum. I wouldn't give up so easily. You will really accomplish nothing if you don't put in the effort and as they say "get r done" If you left your information that I imagine someone will be getting in touch with you. If not, go back and find the forum and give that a try. Also give your local assistance office a try. There are some states that will buy you a car and help you go through the training you need to obtain a job. Like I said don't give up so easily. You are the only one this is going to effect, and if you don't put in the effort of making you goals reality, I'm afraid you just may not get where you are trying to get. Good Luck, let me know I will look for a couple other things for you
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Misty Creek   in reply to single mom3   on

No money for Christmas.

 in response to godsgift...   Hello, I would make a suggestion for you to contact you local churches, police or fire departments to see if they can direct you to where you need to go to get you name on a adopt a family for Christmas list, also go to your local Walmart and ask about getting your name on the Christmas tree, I know its through the Salvation Army of you could also ask one of those bell ringers for more information. Hopefully this will help you out some
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Misty Creek   in reply to Lcollver   on

DO YOU NEED A FREE CAR? This is no joke,it's very real..

try looking at this one to see if they can help you
http://www.wheelsofsuccess.org/news/pr/PR04-Car-Donation.html
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Misty Creek   in reply to Lcollver   on

DO YOU NEED A FREE CAR? This is no joke,it's very real..

 in response to arlor...   Where do you live I will see what I can find for you
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